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When Your Marry 

Marriage Prediction Scale

by Professor Ernest W. Burgess and Dr. Leonard S. Cottrell
I. ITEMS FOR PROSPECTIVE HUSBANDS Score for
Each Item

1. Your place in your family:
Am only child 0
Am oldest child 15
Am middle child 20
Am youngest child 15
No reply 0
 

2. Most attached to which brother or sister:

Only child 0
No special attachment but have brother or sister 20
Most attached to older brother 20
Most attached to older sister 10
Most attached to younger brother 15
Most attached to younger sister 15
No reply 0
 

3. Area of residence:

City *: rooming house area 0
City *: area of "first settlement" 15
City *: area of "second settlement" (newer neighborhoods) 20
City *: hotel area 0
City *: apartment and apartment hotel 10
City *: private homes of better class 20
City *: suburbs 30
Other city: above 10,000 10
Small town (not city* suburb): below 10,000 20
Village and rural 15
No reply 0
 

4. Degree of education:

Grade school only 0
High school 0
Professional school (not collegiate) 0
College graduate 10
Graduate or professional work (beyond college) 20
No reply 0
 

5. Occupation:

None 0
Accountants 15
Advertising 15
Architects 15
Athletic coaches 20
Auto mechanics 5
Automobile salesmen 10
Bank employees 10
Bankers 15
Barbers 5
Bond salesmen 10
Bookkeepers 10
Brokers 10
Carpenters 5
Chemical engineers 20
Civil engineers 15
Clerks 10
Clothing store owners 15
Contractors 15
College professors 20
Corporation officials 15
Dentists 10
Druggists 10
Educational administrators 15
Electrical engineers 15
Electricians 10
Engineers 15
Factory foremen 10
Farmers 10
Garage owners 10
Gas station employees 5
Government workers 15
Grocery-store owners 15
High-school teachers 20
Insurance salesmen 10
Laborers 0
Lawyers 15
Mail clerks 10
Managers 15
Meat-market owners 10
Mechanics 5
Ministers 20
Musicians 5
Newspaper workers 15
Office workers 15
Owners, large business 15
Plumbers 5
Printers 10
Railroad-office workers 10
Real-estate salesmen 5
Salesmen (unclassified) 10
Skilled workers (unclassified) 5
Small-store owners 10
Store salesmen 15
Students 20
Teachers 15
Traveling salesmen 0
Truck drivers 5
Wholesale salesmen 15
All others 10
No reply 0
 

6. How long have you held your present position?

Less than one year 10
One to less than three years 0
Three to less than five years 10
Five to less than seven years 5
Seven years or more 0
No reply 0
 

7. Your work record:

Never worked because in school, or worked only at school vacation time 15
Irregularly employed or continually changing jobs 0
Regularly employed 20
No reply 0
 

8. Present monthly income:

None 10
Under $150 0
$150 to under $250 10
$250 to under $350 5
$350 or more 0
No reply 0
 

9. Amount of savings:

None 0
Under $1000 10
$1000 to under $2000 20
$2000 to under $3000 15
$3000 and over 10
No reply 0
 

10. Financial index at marriage:
Multiply your age (nearest birthday) by your present monthly earnings (example: 23 by $110 equals 2530). Then divide your savings by this number (example: $1200 divided by 2530 equals 17).

If your index is:

0 (no savings) 0
Between .01 and .29 15
.30 and over 20
No reply 5
 

11. Family-background index (To obtain this, see Explanation A):

Under 69 0
70–89 5
90–119 25
 

12.Present amount of religious activity (attendance at church, and so on):

Member, but not stating amount of church attendance 5
No attendance at church or church affairs 0
Attend no more than once a month 10
Attend two or three times a month 20
Attend four or more times a month 15
No reply 0
 

13. Age when you stopped going to Sunday school:

Never went 10
Stopped at 10 years or younger 0
Attended until between 11 and 18 years of age 20
Attended until 19 or more years of age 30
No reply 10
 

14. Number of social organizations of which you are a member:

None 0
One 10
Two 15
Three or more 20
No reply 0
 

15. Childhood and adolescence were spent chiefly in:

City (10,000 or over) 0
Small town (less than 10,000) 10
Country 30
No reply 0
 

16. Number of women went with steadily before fiancˇe:

None but fiancˇe 10
One 5
Two or three 5
Four or five 5
Six or more 0
No reply 0
 

17. Number of men friends:

Almost none 0
A few 5
Several 20
Many 20
No reply 0
 

18. Marital status of your parents:

Married, both living 5
Separated or divorced 0
Both dead 5
Father dead 15
Mother dead 20
No reply 0
 

19. Your estimate of happiness of your parents' marriage:

Very happy 40
Happy 20
Average 10
Unhappy 20
Very unhappy 0
No reply 20
 

20. Amount of disagreement and conflict with your father:

None 40
Very little 30
Moderate 30
A good deal 15
Almost continuous 0
No reply 20
 

21. Do your parents favor your proposed marriage?

Both "yes" 20
One "yes," the other "no" 0
Both "no" 5
No reply 5
 

II. ITEMS FOR PROSPECTIVE WIVES

1. Your place in your family:

Am only child 0
Am oldest child 10
Am middle child 10
Am youngest child 0
No reply 0
 

2. Area of residence:

City*: rooming-house area 5
City*: area of "first settlement" 10
CITY*: area of "second settlement" (newer neighborhoods) 3
City*: hotel area 5
City*: apartment and apartment hotel 0
City*: private homes of better class 15
City*: suburbs 15
Other city: above 10,000 10
Small town: (not city* suburb) below 10,000 20
Village and rural 15
No reply 5
 

3. Degree of education:

Grades only 0
High school 20
Professional school (not collegiate in grade) 20
College graduate 30
Graduate or professional work 40
No reply 10
 

4. Occupation:

None 5
Domestic service 0
Unskilled industrial 0
Clerical and office, semiskilled operators, and so on 0
Skilled office secretaries, stenographers 10
Nursing 5
Professional — teaching 20
Professional — social work 5
Professional — law, medicine, and so on 0
Business women (high paid) 10
Other occupations, such as student, and so on 5
No reply 10
 

5. Is your present occupation in harmony with your vocational ambitions?

Have no special vocational ambition 0
Yes, in harmony with my ambitions 20
Slightly different from my ambitions 20
Greatly different from my ambitions 5
No reply 15
 

6. If employed, how long held present position?

Less than one year 0
One to less than three years 5
Three to less than seven years 10
Seven years and over 20
No reply 0
 

7. Your work record:

Never worked 0
Occasionally worked 5
Regularly employed 15
Housekeeper at home 10
Steadily engaged in outside activities (not gainful employment) 20
No reply 10
 

8. Your present monthly income.

None 10
Under $100 0
$100 to tinder $150 15
$150 to under $200 20
$200 and over 20
No reply 0
 

9. Amount of your present savings:

None 15
Under $500 5
$500 to under $1500 15
$1500 to under $2500 10
$2500 and over 20
No reply 5
 

10. Family background index (To obtain this, see Explanation A):

Under 54 0
55 to 64 15
65 and over 25
 

11. Present amount of religious activity (attendance at church, and so on):

Member, but not stating amount of church attendance 5
No attendance at church or church affairs 0
Attend no more than once a month 5
Attend two or three times a month 5
Attend four or more times a month 10
No reply 5
 

12. Age when you stopped going to Sunday School:

Never went 0
Stopped at 10 years or younger 0
Attended until between 11 and 18 years of age 10
Attended until 19 or more years of age 20
No reply 0
 

13. Number of social organizations of which you are a member:

None 5
One 0
Two 10
Three or more 20
No reply 0
 

14. Number of women friends:

Almost none 0
A few 20
Several 10
Many 30
No reply 20
 

15. Your estimate of happiness of your parents' marriage:

Very happy 20
Happy 20
Average 10
Unhappy 0
Very unhappy 0
No reply 0
 

16. Amount of your disagreement and conflict with your father:

None 10
Very little 0
Moderate 0
A good deal 5
Almost continuous 0
No reply 5
 

17. Do parents favor your marriage?

Both "yes" 20
Father "yes"; mother 11 no" 15
Father "no"; mother "yes" 0
Both "no" 5
No reply 5
 

III. ITEMS COMMON TO BOTH HUSBAND AND WIFE

1. How long have you known each other?

Under six months 0
Six months to less than two years 10
Two years to less than five years 20
Five years to less than ten years 25
Ten years or more 30
No reply 20
 

2. How long have you been "keeping company"?

Under one year 0
One year to under three years 5
Three years and over 20
No reply 5
 

3. Difference between your ages (nearest birthdays):

Same age 5
Husband older by one to three years 5
Husband older by four to seven years 0
Husband older by eight or more years 10
Wife older by one to three years 10
Wife older by four or more years 30
No reply 0
Both parents of superior or reputable status 20 20 One parent of superior or reputable and another of inferior status 10 10 Both parents of inferior status 0 0
 

EXPLANATION A — FAMILY BACKGROUND INDEX OF FATHER AND MOTHER

a. Religious preference of father and mother (Catholic, Jewish, Protestant):

  Husband's ScoreWife's Score
Both parents same 20 10
Different 0 0
One or both not known 10 5
 

b. Education of parents:

Both parents college 30 20
One college, one high school 20 15
Both parents high school 15 10
One college, one grammar school 15 10
One high school, one grammar school 10 7
Both parents grammar school 7 5
One no education 5 3
Both parents no education 0 0
One or both unknown 7 4
 

c. Order of birth parents:

Oldest and oldest 30 20
Oldest and middle 10 8
Oldest and youngest 10 8
Oldest and only 20 15
Middle and middle 10 8
Middle and only 20 15
Youngest and youngest 10 8
Youngest and only 0 0
Only and only 0 0
 

d. Number of brothers and sisters of parents:

5 or more on both sides 20 10
5 or more on one side and 4 on the other 18 9
5 or more on one side and 3 on the other 17 8
5 or more on one side and 2 on the other 16 8
5 or more on one side and 1 on the other 15 7
5 or more on one side and 0 on the other 14 7
4 and 4 15 7
4 and 3 14 7
4 and 2 13 6
4 and 1 12 6
4 and 0 10 5
3 and 3 14 7
3 and 2 13 6
3 and 1 12 6
3 and 0 9 5
2 and 2 12 6
2 and 1 11 5
2 and 0 9 4
1 and 1 11 5
1 and 0 8 4
0 and 0 0 0
One or both not known 7 4
 

e. Social status of parents' families in their community:

* 200,000 population or over

From: When You Marry
By Evelyn Millis Duvall and Reuben Hill
1945